http://www.adefwebserver.com/dotnetnukehelp/misc/Silverlight/SettingMimeType.html
Windows 2003:
In IIS Management, click on the root node under
Internet Information Services

Select the
HTTP Headers tab and then click the
MIME Types... button

Click the
New button

Enter
.xap for the Extensions and
application/x-silverlight-app for the MIME type

Click
OK, then
OK, then
Apply, then
OK.