Laughter is an instant vacation.
笑一笑，身心轻松宛如度了个短假。
Always present a smile on your face, even there's no joyful thing.
The pains that you are suffering sometimes are inevitable, only you know how that hurt, even you tell someone else what you have experienced and how painful you have felt, they won't completely empathsize with you, some even deem you as weak, uncapable, unreliable.
We have been told not to care too much and fear about judgements made by others, nevertheless, most of us cannot act in that way, after all, this is world full of judgements.
So, no matter how depressed or frustrated you feel in your inner heart, just present a smile on your face, that would make you lovely and more welcome, at least it appears to be so.
I like men who have a future and women who have a past.
我喜欢有未来的男人和有过去的女人。
I also like men who have a future because they may be saturated with energy and vigour, being with those people, maybe I can be influenced by their positive thoughts and behaviours.
But I don't like women who have a past, however, almost every woman I have met with has a past.