It is a characteristic of wisdom not to do desperate things.
不做孤注一掷的事情是智慧的表现。
We are told that we had better not to put all our eggs into one basket, that means, we must learn how to spread the risks so as to reduce the potential risks to the minimum limit.
Of course, not to do desperate things also means not to gambling your wealth or your fate, that is to say, don't rely on things you can't control.
But sometimes, we need to make some adventures to win the game.
Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
爱所有人，信任少数人，不负任何人。
Don't just being self-absorbed and forget to care about who you love and who you cooperate with.
Don't be snobbish, that would let you become the one who don't get people's respects and they would detest you.
Treat them in the way you want to be treated, trust some of them and you will be benefited from your trusts.
Besides, don't do harm. That may be the most important, because we often hurt people who love us in a unconscious way.
I would like to continue our discussion about the features that help you identify a rubbish man, if you are interested in this topic, how about checking that how many that fit you?
(Part Three)
10. He always brings up your old mistakes.
11. You don't feel being appreciated.
12. He forgets the important things about you.
13 He is secretive.
That means you never know whether he is coming or going. Your boyfriend could be doing anything when he is not with you and you would have no way of knowing.
14 He talks to other women.
He flirts with other women right in front of you. He still mentions his ex-girlfriend.
He even compliments other women's appearances in your presence.
15. He is not supportive.
Your boyfriend laughs at your dreams and goals.
Ok, just suspend for the present and we will continue this topic tomorrow.
But there is one thing I must take notice of, that is the 14th and 15th clauses, I think I just fit in these items, that may be part of the reasons why I was disliked by my ex-wife.