Today I have been thinking about what is love,and what is real love.This question puzzled me when I break up with my first boyfriend,with whom I went through my frist love process for about 4 years.At the age of 20th,most of us don't understand love,we all go for a relationship with passion,with attraction,with power,but we don't know that love is very complicated,it's not as simple as a kiss.Especially when you get into a long relationship,you have to be ready for a commitment,which means a kind of resposibility,love includes duties and obligations,compromise,concession and so on.Even the couple seems the most appropriate for each other,they will run into this problem when the contradition come up between them.The one who love people is willing to make a commitment,which means he or she will take the resposibility of the love,and will also be the one who compromise when the lover needs it.The more you love,the more you would give,the more you would compromise.and this is the one who really loves you.If you are in the opposite way,sorry,you are exactly the one who really loves someone,but maybe you are not in a real love process.
Actually,I consider that real love is a relationship with an unequal compact,there is always the one who gives more,and the other one who gets more.And your position is doomed when you start the relationship with someone.If you want to control it,you must decide when you meet someone who really loves you.
怎么说呢，本来是英语差得很，去找篇东西交作业，可看完之后觉得很不错，就抄过来了，希望主人不要发飙