人人追求幸福，可什么是幸福呢?本文作者认为幸福不是目的，不是终点，而是一个过程，是以积极的工作为他人的幸福做出贡献,从而感到自身价值的过程。
Happiness
Many people think that when they become rich and successful, happiness will naturally follow. Let me tell you that certainly nothing is further from the truth. The world is full of very rich people who are as miserable as hell. We have all stories about movie stars committing suicide or dying from drugs. Quite clearly, money is not the answer to all problems.
Wealth achieved through dishonest means does not bring happiness. Lottery winnings do not bring happiness. Wealth left by parents does not bring happiness. In fact, money alone is almost worthless. If you have both self-esteem and money. however, you are well on the way to happiness. What is missing in both self-esteem and money is productive work and a real contribution towards the happiness of others. The secret to happiness lies in the contribution towards the happiness of others. You can fool others but you can never fool yourself. If you obtain wealth through luck and dishonest means, you will know you did not earn it . If you have taken adventage of or hurt others to earn your wealth, you will not be happy. You will not like yourself. You will not feel your capable.
There are many highly-paid managers and entertainers who do not like themselves. Outwardly, they seem successful, but deep down they are miserable. They know they are contibuting very little of real value and all the time they live in fear of being exposed as cheats. They know they are not earning their wealth. They know they are cheating the company, the goverment or society. But the can't fool themselves.
Long-term happiness is based on honesty, productive work, contribution, and self-esteem. Happiness is not a end; it is a process. It is a continuous process of honest. productive work which makes a real contribution to others and makes you feel like a wealthwhile person. As Dr.Wayne wrote, "There is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way ." There is no use saying "Some day when I achieve these goals, when i get this car, build this house and have this business ...then I will be really happy."Life just does not work that way. If you wait for certain things to happen and depend on external circumstances of life to make you happy, you will always feel unfullfilled. There will always be something missing.
Long-term happiness is a process of moving towards worthwhile goals and constributing towards the welfare and happiness of others. It does not mean that you should give away all your wealth. It means continuously creating values for others through your own hoest, productive work, It means achieving your goals and the challenging yourself to bigger and better things. It means always striving for more, learning and growing. Doing nothing means death.Activity means life. Find your purpose, set some goals, do what your love, love what you do, work honestly and prductively and contribute real values to the others. In the long term, that's what it's all about.
In the short term, you can start practising being happy right now without any obvious reason. How will you know how to be happy if you don't try it?It is the same as acting and feeling rich. Don't wait for another 10 years to start feeling rich, successful and happy. Start practising now. You know that they say "practice makes perfect." Pretend that you are rich and you will be happy. Pretend and act as if you were happy and you will be happy. Pretend and act as if you were miserable and ... Well, forget about this last one, You have been practising that one for far too long.