用了cgo mac上编译不过的可以试试下面的方法
../../pkg/mod/github.com/mattn/go-sqlite3@v1.10.0/backup.go:14:10: fatal error: 'stdlib.h' file not found
#include <stdlib.h> ^~~~~~~~~~ 1 error generated.
open /Library/Developer/CommandLineTools/Packages/macOS_SDK_headers_for_macOS_10.14.pkg